Suggesting a "House of Love Lustery" can be intimidating. Here is a script:
"I love our home. I love the life we have built. But I miss the electricity we used to feel. I don't want to change who we are. I want to build a small, separate room in our hearts (or our home) where we can be the people we were on our third date. I want to build a House of Love Lustery with you." house of love lustery
Notice the language: "Build with you." It is collaborative. It is not a critique of your current sex life; it is an expansion of it. Suggesting a "House of Love Lustery" can be intimidating
The idea of a House of Love, or any variation thereof like "Lustery," speaks to a space where love, affection, and perhaps desire are the central themes. Such a place could be interpreted in many ways, from a physical location like a home or a community center dedicated to fostering love and connection, to a metaphorical space that represents the heart's desires and the pursuit of love. But I miss the electricity we used to feel
Throughout history and across cultures, there have been numerous interpretations of places or structures dedicated to love and lust. For example: