Lovers And Sex Guide - 46 - Body Massage And Squirting Orgasms May 2026

Squirting is the expulsion of fluid from the paraurethral glands (often called the Skene’s glands) and, via the urethra, during intense sexual stimulation. This fluid is not urine, though it passes through the urethra. Chemical analysis shows it contains:

Squirting is NOT a requirement for a fulfilling sex life. However, many women describe it as a unique, releasing orgasm—different from a clitoral or vaginal climax—characterized by a full-body contraction and a sensation of “letting go.”

Massage and intimate touch are powerful ways to build trust, increase arousal, and explore your partner’s pleasure. This post gives clear, respectful guidance to help partners connect, relax, and discover new sensations—focusing on full-body massage as foreplay and techniques that may increase the likelihood of female ejaculation (squirting) when consensual and desired. Squirting is the expulsion of fluid from the

Combine internal G-spot pressure with external clitoral stimulation to intensify arousal—many find this combination more effective.

Encourage pelvic relaxation: breathing deeply, letting go of tension rather than tightening.

Observe sensations: squirting is often preceded by strong pressure, pelvic heaviness, or an intense urge to urinate—reassure that this can be normal.

If the partner feels the urge to pee and is comfortable, continue; if they want to stop, respect that immediately.

Aftercare: gentle soothing touch, clean-up, rehydration, cuddling, and conversational reassurance.

Practical tips:

According to urological studies, approximately 40–60% of women have the physiological capacity to squirt, but fewer actually do regularly. If it doesn’t happen: Squirting is NOT a requirement for a fulfilling sex life

Goal: Release tension from the shoulders, lower back, and hips.

Step 1: Back & Glutes

Step 2: Inner Thighs & Hamstrings

Step 3: The Sacral Hold